Louise Jefferies

As far as I can remember I’ve always been sensitive to other’s moods and emotions and I tend to have a natural impulse to help people who are feeling “out of sorts”.

From quite an early age this sensitivity to others led me to form quite strong impressions of those around me. As I started interacting with these individuals, I discovered that when they were disturbed by something, just listening to whatever was going on for them and “hearing” what they were saying helped ease their tension. It didn’t remove the problem, but just being heard helped the individual deal with whatever was going on for them.

Although it wasn’t a conscious realisation at the time, I basically found out that we all need to be ‘heard’ and sometimes it takes a stranger to really “hear” what a person is saying. I think the reason for this is because friends and family members tend to ‘hear’ us through the filter of their experience of us, and this filter sometimes distorts or hides what’s really being said. Either that, or the friend or family member is too invested in the outcome, to fully support us to change.

Later, after I had been teaching English for some years I experienced this first hand when I heard what I was actually saying myself to a colleague. This was a one of many turning points in my life and lead me to train as a life coach and EFT practitioner.

Not sure if you're ready?
If you resonate with one of these statements there’s a strong indication that you are ready for some inner self coaching:
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You feel stuck in your job/relationship/life.
You have a good job, relationship, life, but feel like something is missing.
You have a good life and feel you should be content/happy, but you're not
You don’t have a good job/relationship/life and can‘t find the way out.
You want to be fitter and healthier, but nothing is working for you.
You feel like you don’t really know who you are anymore.
You've spent the last 20 years looking after your kids, and now they‘ve left home you feel lost.
You‘ve spent the last 20 years focussing on your partner, now they’ve gone you feel lost.

I'm here for you, I can help.
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