Curtis Ainslie

In a world that often expects conformity, it can be difficult to navigate our paths authentically. As a queer individual, I have experienced firsthand the complexities of accepting and embracing my true self. But rather than allowing these challenges to limit me, I turned my journey into an opportunity to help others as a queer life coach.

Growing up, I struggled with understanding my identity. I encountered societal norms that deemed queerness as abnormal or unacceptable, leaving me feeling confused and isolated. I felt tremendous pain from the hetero-normative, white, conservative Christians who were telling me I was wrong to be who I knew I truly was. But throughout my inner journey, I discovered the strength to embrace my authenticity and recognize it as a source of power. This revelation fueled my passion to support others seeking to do the same.

Being queer is only one facet of an individual's identity. It is essential to understand that people can belong to various marginalized identities, such as race, gender, or class. My coaching practice is deeply rooted in intersectionality, recognizing the diverse lived experiences of each client. By holistically acknowledging the impact of intersecting identities, I provide a safe and inclusive space for clients to explore their desires, goals, and challenges.

Many LGBTQIA+ individuals find themselves wrestling with internalized homophobia, transphobia, or other societal biases that diminish their self-worth. As a queer life coach, I help clients interrogate and challenge these limiting beliefs, empowering them to rewrite their narratives and cultivate self-love and acceptance. Our work together focuses on building a solid foundation of self-confidence, fostering resilience, and embracing personal growth.

Embracing our true selves in a world that can be judgmental and dismissive is an act of incredible bravery. As a queer life coach, my journey has fueled my passion for empowering individuals to live authentically. By fostering self-love, challenging limiting beliefs, creating community, and advocating for queer empowerment, I aim to support my clients in transforming their lives. Together, we are reshaping the narrative of what it means to be LGBTQIA+, reminding ourselves and others that our identities are valid, beautiful, and worthy of celebration.