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Vanessa Cardenas

Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation, Mental Fitness Trainer, 6 Phase Meditation Instructor


About Vanessa

I help individuals heal from intimate partner betrayal to feel safe again, trust again, and love again so they can live again.

Are you feeling overwhelmed by the emotions brought on by your intimate partners' betrayal?
Despite the support of loved ones, it can feel like there's no one to turn to.

But you're not alone. I understand the pain and trauma of betrayal, having faced it myself, and found my purpose in helping others heal and transform.

With over 20 years of experience as a C-Suite Mentor, Coach, and Advisor, I am here to guide you through your journey to healing and growth. Whether you're struggling with the aftermath of infidelity, trying to rebuild trust, or seeking to understand and overcome the emotional fallout of betrayal, I am here to help.

Having successfully healed my own marriage years earlier, I have specialized in betrayal since 2017, assisting clients in transforming their pain into enduring liberation and meaningful change.

You are taking an important step by seeking support, and I am dedicated to providing a safe, non-judgmental space for you to process your feelings, gain clarity, and start your healing journey.

My approach is based on empathy, understanding, and compassion, and I will work with you to create a personalized plan tailored to your unique needs and goals.

Together, we will build your mental fitness and resilience, so you can face the challenges of betrayal with confidence and strength. Using research-tested tools, we will help you heal, love, and trust again.

Take the first step towards healing and transformation. Reach out and schedule a session today. I am honored to be a part of your journey toward a brighter future.


I am so excited to announce that my new book, "Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal, What to do When Your World Falls Apart" is now available in both paperback and Kindle on Amazon!

A recent review reads:

“A Gift for all hearts - healed and healing!”

The author’s heart-centered approach and compassionate nature on the sensitive subjects of betrayal and infidelity clearly shine through in the writing. This combined with her raw authenticity, clever conveyance of experiential wisdom, and even her sense of humor (taking a wiffle ball bat to the sofa?!? Love! LOL) kept me turning page after page.

The creative chapter layout and effortless flow of the information interwoven amongst quotes, journal prompts, and helpful resources make this both an easy read and a personal guidebook to keep handy for future reference. Her recap at the end of numerous examples in music, books, movies, and media events of the subliminal programming being fed to the culture-scape about the complexities and nuances of these subjects and their effect on the human experience is second to none.

This is clearly a must-read for anyone with personal or professional skin in the game on this topic!" M. Horton, NYC

"The most important things are the hardest to say…locked within, not for the want of a teller, but for the want of an Understanding Ear"– The Body, Stephen King

  • New York, United States