Pete Tobias

If you've tried everything but still feel stuck in the same patterns, there's a reason. The issues that keep showing up—imposter syndrome that won't quit, relationships that repeat the same dynamics, work stress that follows you everywhere—aren't random. They're rooted in patterns from your past that are running the show in your present.

That's where I come in.

I specialise in depth coaching that goes beyond surface strategies. Drawing on clinical training and psychodynamic principles, I help you uncover the unconscious patterns, family dynamics, and past experiences that keep you stuck, so you can finally move forward.

What I Work With

I help clients navigate complex challenges: emotional intimacy issues, imposter syndrome, relationship patterns, family dynamics, work transitions, burnout, stress, and emotional regulation. I also work extensively with neurodivergent clients who need an approach that honours how they're wired while addressing what's holding them back.

Whether you're facing a major life transition, struggling to reach career goals, or finding the same conflicts show up repeatedly in relationships, we'll explore what's underneath so real change becomes possible.

My Approach

This isn't quick-fix coaching. It's depth work for people ready to understand why they do what they do—and change it. We'll look at how your past shapes your present, identify the patterns keeping you stuck, and create a path forward that's grounded in genuine self-understanding.
My style is professional, insightful, and growth-focused. Informed by my background as an accredited counsellor and EMDR therapist, I bring therapeutic depth to coaching that drives real transformation. You'll feel heard, understood, and equipped with clarity about what's been blocking you and how to move beyond it.

If you're ready to stop repeating the same patterns and create lasting change, let's talk.