Kevin Lourd

I work with polarity-based coaching: individuals in a couple or dating, decomposing the relationship along the masculine-feminine axis, with a prioritized action plan and measurable results.

35+ years immersed in intimacy and relational exploration, starting from age 3 in Vietnamese Buddhist monasteries and the world of tantra.

Trained in trauma-informed care, somatic practices, and sacred sexuality.

Co-founded and led France’s largest sex-positive community. Over 100 workshops facilitated, 1,000+ clients.

My analytical background led me to build conceptual models from lived experience — today I use those frameworks to illuminate the dynamics at play in a couple, clarify the choices available, and share from experience the trade-offs of each.